Demi Moore's Tragic Real-Life Story

Demi Moore's impressive career began when she was just a teenager. Moore started out modeling and doing commercial work and made a name for herself as a member of The Brat Pack, starring in iconic '80s films such as "St. Elmo's Fire" and "About Last Night." She went on to become the highest paid female actor in the '90s, and became a tabloid fixture in the 2000s when she married Ashton Kutcher, who was 15 years her junior. In 2024, Moore returned to the small screen as Ann Woodward in "Feud: Capote Vs. The Swans," to the delight of her fans.

But despite her career success and star power, Moore's life has been anything but easy. The actor endured unthinkable tragedies during her childhood years and seemed to carry that pain with her throughout her adult life. Her 2019 memoir "Inside Out" is full of shocking revelations and frightening experiences that rival the plot of any Hollywood blockbuster. Read on to learn more about the tragic real life story of Demi Moore.

Demi Moore's childhood did not improve as she moved through adolescence. In fact, things only became more tumultuous in her family. In Moore's memoir, "Inside Out," she wrote about a harrowing experience in which she saved her mother's life during a suicide attempt. Moore recalled that, at 12 years old, her father sought her help after her mother attempted to overdose on medication. 

"The next thing I remember is using my fingers, the small fingers of a child, to dig the pills my mother had tried to swallow out of her mouth while my father held it open and told me what to do," the actor revealed (via Us Weekly). The experience left Moore understandably shaken, to the point that she felt her whole life had been altered. "Something very deep inside me shifted then, and it never shifted back," Moore wrote. "My childhood was over."

Moore explained in her memoir that both of her parents dealt with substance misuse throughout the years, as well as money troubles, which may have contributed to her mother's mental health issues. Sadly, it was the first instance of Moore's mother attempting to take her own life but not the last. During an appearance on "Good Morning America," Moore told host Diane Sawyer that her mother attempted suicide "many, many times."

If you or someone you know is struggling or in crisis, help is available. Call or text 988 or chat 988lifeline.org.

When Demi Moore was just 15 years old, she was the victim of a horrific sexual assault. Moore was raped by an older man, someone she and her mother both knew, and in an unimaginable twist, it was Moore's mother who arranged it. Moore wrote about the traumatic experience in her memoir, explaining, "It was rape. And a devastating betrayal, revealed by the man's cruel question: 'How does it feel to be w***ed by your mother for $500?'" (via ABC News).

During her interview with Diane Sawyer, Moore expressed that she did not believe her mother had actually sold her to this man for sex, but that her mother had been responsible either way. "I don't think it was a straightforward transaction," Moore said. "But she still did give him the access and put me in harm's way."

Soon after the assault, Moore dropped out of school and left home. She became a success, but some wounds never fully heal. Moore chose to use her experience to help others, and in 2009 she founded Thorn, an organization that fights child sexual abuse.

If you or anyone you know has been a victim of sexual assault, help is available. Visit the Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network website or contact RAINN's National Helpline at 1-800-656-HOPE (4673).

After her first marriage ended, it seemed Demi finally found true love with fellow actor Bruce Willis. The pair tied the knot in 1987, after just four months of dating. It seemed like the perfect Hollywood match, but this time it wasn't Moore who was having doubts.

According to Moore's memoir, Willis claimed he wasn't sure he wanted to be married. He felt Moore's career would take her attention away from him and their growing family. Moore, whose star was on the rise with her role in the 1990 film "Ghost," wrote that Willis once told her, "This is never going to work if you're off shooting a film" (via Mirror).

Despite any initial reservations, however, the couple made it work and welcomed three daughters together, Rumer, Scout, and Tallulah. Moore and Willis stayed together until 2000 and ended up with a pretty amicable divorce. "I think Bruce was fearful at the beginning that I was going to make our split difficult, and that I would express my anger and whatever baggage that I had from our marriage by obstructing his access to the kids," Moore expressed in her memoir. But that didn't happen, and she claimed she is "very proud of our divorce" (via People).

Demi Moore was a bona fide movie star by the '90s, but it was the 1996 film "Striptease" that made her the highest paid female actor in Hollywood. Moore was paid $12.5 million to play the role of Erin Grant, a woman who becomes an exotic dancer to raise legal fees to fight for custody of her daughter. But despite the hefty paycheck Moore received for the part, it also came with a fair amount of backlash. "It was just about a mother trying to survive and not lose her daughter. But it came with a lot of judgment," Moore explained to Variety.

The film was also panned by critics and garnered six Razzie Awards, including worst picture, and Moore herself won the Golden Raspberry for worst actress. "Striptease" was a financial failure as well, grossing only $32.8 million in North America. According to Far Out Magazine, Moore was considered "box office poison" after the movie bombed, and execs were concerned about how that would affect the success of the upcoming "G.I. Jane," in which Moore also starred. "We don't know what to do ... People just don't want to see her. We would have to drag them kicking and screaming to see this movie," an executive from Disney told Newsweek ahead of the film's release (via The Telegraph).

Demi Moore and Ashton Kutcher stayed together after Moore's miscarriage and tied the knot in 2005. The marriage seemed blissful, with Kutcher taking on the role of stepfather to Demi's three daughters. But while the family appeared happy, Moore and Kutcher's relationship became difficult.

Moore wrote in her book that she put Kutcher first, even engaging in threesomes to keep him happy. "[I]t was in my efforts to want to please and be what I thought he wanted," she explained in an interview on "The Ellen Show." However, Moore claimed that the couple's sexual exploits led to Kutcher's infidelity, which in turn put the marriage in jeopardy. "Because we had brought in a third party into our relationship, Ashton said, that blurred the lines and, to some extent, justified what he's done," Moore wrote in her memoir (via People).

In 2011, a 22-year-old woman named Sara Leal revealed to Us Weekly that she and Kutcher had sex after a night of partying on what happened to be his and Moore's sixth wedding anniversary. Leal claimed that Kutcher had told her that he and Moore had separated, and that he'd seduced her. "He just came up and kissed me," she said. Moore didn't seem surprised and believed Leal. "I knew she wasn't lying. He admitted it right away," Moore wrote in her memoir. She and Kutcher split soon after, finalizing their divorce in 2013.

Amid Demi Moore's troubled marriage to Ashton Kutcher and the personal difficulties that ensued, her relationship with her three daughters fractured. "She was really struggling mentally and didn't take care of herself," a source shared with People. "She didn't have the best relationship with her daughters either and her life was just chaos." In fact, Moore and her daughters, Rumer, Scout, and Tallulah, were estranged for nearly three years.

During their "Red Table Talk" appearance, Rumer and Tallulah explained why this happened, reflecting on how Moore's all-consuming relationship with Kutcher affected them deeply. "I felt like I developed and nurtured a narrative where she didn't love me, and I truly believed it," Tallulah said. Rumer explained, "I think also when she wanted to have another baby ... it was like, 'Oh well, we're not enough.'"

Eventually, Moore and her daughters mended their relationship after Moore made her way down a healthier life path. Moore's daughter Scout told The New York Times she was proud of her mom for "doing the internal work that she didn't have the time to do for a long time because she was just in survival mode." And Tallulah shared a Mother's Day Instagram post in 2020 that acknowledged the rift with her mom and how they'd found their way back. "I am magnetically transfixed by my mother, if you know me personally you know the magnitude of her presence in my life," Tallulah wrote.